Gerald, I am praying with you for Tom. I ask that "God" will give him what he gave me to get through the same trials in my life . I’ve been through the same things and it an be very tough . However with prayer and with "God" I’m doing very well today in my walk with "God" may we all be grateful for what we have and thankful for what we don’t have . Also please let’s all keep Tom in our prayers . Bob H <South Bend,Indiana>