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by Dr. D ~ June 29th, 2009

Hi, I’m in need of prayer. It may be long so I appreciate the attention. I developed a really good friendship with a young lady I began working with last year. Tomorrow will be here last day at the job as she is moving a couple of hours away to go and further her education. I will miss her dearly and wishes she didn’t have to go, but I do want her to do what she needs to do to make life better for herself and her two children.

As hard as it is to know she’s leaving, she’s been in a relationship with a woman for several months and for whatever reason, decided to be hostile towards me. It started when my friend invited me to her daughter’s party two months ago and the woman got livid towards her for inviting me. I also gave my friend a ride home around the same time and her partner didn’t like that either. But things seemed to have calmed down for a while until this past Friday evening, when the woman sent me a text message ordering me not to talk to my friend, which I immediately launched into a diatribe via text that went on for a couple hours. We had a company picnic and I was mingling with my friend, as well as other co-workers there. That’s why this woman sent the nasty text message. I alerted my friend about this yesterday, but she seemed rather dismissive, even sensing that I was jealous of their relationship because I tried to seek a relationship with her but she refused my offer (I’m a male). I believe this woman is a controlling, insanely jealous individual who is trying to play me against my friend (which I also warned her about). This woman even went so far to say that she was going to have the number changed to prevent me from talking to her. This woman is moving with my friend and my biggest fear is that she will try and isolate her from me. If she succeeds in doing that, who’s to say she won’t prevent my friend from being friends with other people.

As bad as this may seem, I want my friend to live her life the way she sees fit. I also want to go so far as to bury the hatchet with this woman so that it will not cause further conflict between my friend and myself and not lose our friendship. She’s been one of the best friends I’ve had. I’m even willing to sit down and talk with the both of them to discuss this. Maybe it’s something that should’ve happened a long time ago. However, I will let my friend know of my intention to call a truce and let this take its course.

I pray that my friend will open her eyes and see what’s going on. I care about her very much and our friendship matters a whole lot to me. And yes, I did want a relationship with her and at one point I thought we were going to head into that direction, but she decided to pull back. Plus, with her going away for school, it probably was best for us not to enter in one because the relationship probably would suffer from the separation, even being two hours away. I’ve been in a long-distance relationship before and I don’t wanna go through that again. Also, she’s going to school in a smaller town and job prospects are not that great there. This may also sound silly, but I want to be able to have a relationship with my friend in the future. Her plan after school is to move to Memphis and I had a desire recently to move there in a couple of years or so, so that I can be closer to family members who moved there from the midwest. Plus, I can transfer to a sister company that’s located in Memphis so that I won’t have to start over with another company. I know that each person has free will, but I pray that somehow, our wills will come together and I can give her the true love I know I can give her. Don’t get me wrong, I won’t keep myself single to wait around on this happening since it will take some time to come together, but whenever this door can open, I want to see it burst wide open.

I believe through Christ, all things are possible. Thank you for reading and please pray for a positive outcome. God bless!

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